Friday, August 5, 2011

What Is This?

Help.




This is a plant in my front yard garden.

No, I did not plant it.

Base housing did. And they expect me to keep everything in said garden alive.

I’m not sure if I should cut it, water it, or sell it.

I’m kidding on the last part. I’m not in an episode of Weeds.

But what is it?

I’m worried if I pull it out that housing will pound on my door demanding to know why I got rid of the rare Baquish plant.

(There’s no such thing as a Baquish plant. I made it up.)

(Then again, there COULD be a Baquish plant. I don’t garden so I wouldn’t know.)

Anyway.

Odds are, housing wouldn’t plant anything expensive so it can’t be rare.

And it looks like a weed.

So, should I pull it up?

Or prune it?

(Isn’t that a funny word? Prune. It’s not just something you eat. It’s something you DO. Haha...okay, maybe I’m just amused with the word.)

(I’ve been drinking too much sweet tea.)

The End of Summer

Well it is here.....the day teachers and students dread.....parents rejoice in.....the day that is destined to happen each and every summer.  Today is the last official day of summer break.  On Monday I will get up at 4:30 and begin making the treck each day to Alex City.  I have to admit it has been a mixed summer.  Amanda and I went to Ramona's for a weekend early into summer, Frank and I hosted the Rock Mills BBQ and Still Magnolias sang, I went to AEA Leadership Conference in Mobile with Frank, I went to an AEA AR training at the Grand National in Auburn, I went to Cape Cod, I read books (lots of them), and I went back and forth to Birmingham to go to the hospital to see my friends Mary and Beth.  All in all that is a relatively good summer.  I would have liked to spend some more time at the beach....but to be really honest....it has been entirely too hot.  Today on my last official free day I know you are wondering what I am going to do.....well....I am going to clean my nasty house, put the finishing touches on a powerpoint, work on a shutterfly book, move some furniture around, and read.  I plan to put in a full day of enjoying what I am doing because on Monday....I will be at inservices/institute/working in my room...and you know....I love my job....so I am actually looking forward to Monday.  Remind me of this at Christmas ok?  I truly can remember my own first days....my mom took a picture of each and every one of them.  I thought it was so dorky to stand on my sidewalk and smile with my new supplies.  I will say I have always loved those first days.  It was a time to start anew, get new supplies and clothes, it was almost as good as Christmas.  I loved elementary school more than high school.  I had wonderful teachers....Mrs. Lohr, Mrs. Davidson, Ms. Reynolds, Ms. Carlson....and truly believe I teach today because of those wonderful ones.  I won't lie....I had some not so wonderful ones....and they were the reason I hated school.....but you know....I eventually have forgotten their names.  Isn't it funny how that happens?  So I have a question for you....what do you remember most about your first days of school?  Where you excited?  Unhappy?  Tell me what you remember in a comment.....Oh and Happy Friday to you!

Thursday, August 4, 2011

Inside Natalie's Closet

So it's no secret that I love buying clothes for my kids.

Occasionally I’ll post an entry with their latest outfits.

I’m slowly starting to try on Natalie’s fall/winter wardrobe. Yes, she already has a bunch. I like to plan ahead.

This outfit is from Gap’s Deauville line:




I’m a sucker for polka dots.


Natalie...well, maybe she’s not as thrilled with them:




Then she was like, “I’ll pose, you take pictures!”









She belongs on Next Top Model or something.

Although Jay would be like, “You look scrunched up. Relax your face!”







And then Natalie wanted to do an impression of a Kardashian sister:






(Flashback! This was taken when Natalie was two…)

I Will Build My House Upon A Rock And Call It Clingstone!

One of my favorite bible verses is from Matthew 7:24 and says: "Therefore whosoever heareth these sayings of mine, and doeth them, I will liken him unto a wise man, which built his house upon a rock:"  I once saw a television show about a man who did just that....built his house upon a rock....and anyone who’s ever sailed out of Newport, RI or driven over the Newport Bridge will recognize the the house on the rock in the photo below.
When we were in Newport last weekend and looking for a lighthouse you can imagine how thrilled I was to turn toward the Inn and see Clingstone, the house on the rock.  When I got home and told people about seeing this house several of my friends had no idea what I was talking about.  So I decided to spend a little time and research the house and blog about it.  The New York times was most helpful.  Believe me....if you ever go to Newport....and don't see anything else (which would be crazy) you MUST see this.  Clingstone was built in 1905 at the cost of $36,982.99, the house was basically abandoned in 1941, and then purchased by Mr. Wood in 1961 for $3,500 in derelict condition. With 23 rooms and 10 bedrooms, life on the rock is not exactly luxury.Through a great deal of hard work today, solar panels heat the water, and a wind turbine on the roof generates electricity. Rainwater is collected in a 3,000-gallon cistern, then filtered, treated and pumped through the house for cleaning purposes only. After years of using an activated seawater system that draws in seawater, then treats and filters the waste before releasing it back into the ocean, Clingstone now has the latest generation of composting toilets.  Clingstone is honestly a faded, shingled and, yes, very rough 103-year-old mansion set on a rock in Narragansett Bay just off Newport, RI.  For nearly half a century, the current owner, Mr. Wood, has kept the house (more or less) intact, and the house is still standing, through his own hard labor and that of others. He and a crew of family and friends who share his passion for the place’s “deep bohemian funk,”  have dedicated their time and skills (plumbing and wiring experience are always particularly welcome) to keeping the place from slipping into the water forever.  In 1961, when Mr. Wood bought the house with his ex-wife Joan, who is also an architect, for $3,600, it had been empty for two decades. All of its 65 windows were smashed, and its slate roof was wide open to the sky. Vandals had been creative: on the second floor, the interior shingles were embedded with marbles (they still are), which had been blasted there by some sort of firearm.  On three sides there were four-by-eight-foot plywood signs proclaiming: “For Sale. See Any Broker.” That is exactly what Wood and his wife did and they were told that the owners were asking a mere $5,000, but would take considerably less. The house was actually built by a distant cousin of his, J. S. Lovering Wharton, from Philadelphia, who had a summer house in the Fort Wetherill area in south Jamestown. (Newport tended to attract New York society; Philadelphians summered in quieter Jamestown.) When the fort was enlarged at the end of the 1800s, the government seized his land, and Clingstone was Wharton's rebuke. “He said, ‘I’m going to build where no one can bother me.’ ” Together with artist, William Trost Richards, Mr. Wharton designed a shingle-style house of picture windows, with 23 rooms on three stories radiating off a vast central hall. Wharton built it like a mill, with wide planking, sturdy oak beams, diagonal sheathing and an odd flourish: an interior cladding of shingles, put there, possibly because Fort Wetherill’s cannons went off so regularly in training exercises that they cracked the plaster in the neighbors’ houses.The neighbors, it seems, were skeptical of Mr. Wharton’s project. A society item in The Philadelphia Press in August 1904 reads, “Everyone is of the opinion here that Mr. Wharton will not stay in the house more than one season, and they say one nor’easter will settle it.” But Mr. Wharton loved his new house, and spent every summer there until his death just before the hurricane of 1938, which the house survived with little damage. After his widow died, in 1941, the house stood empty until Mr. Wood and his wife came upon it. The story, Mr. Wood said, is that Mr. Wharton’s three sons disliked one another so much, they couldn’t agree on who to sell it to. “I think they only sold it to me because I was a relative,” he added. Every spring for a decade or so after the sale, Mr. Wood said, he cursed “this albatross,” his roofless, windowless, floorless, powerless, waterless house. Wrangling what had been a rich man’s plaything, attended by servants and even its own shipyard, into a working couple’s weekend getaway turned out to be much more than a working couple could handle. Eventually, though, as the Woods mustered the talents of their friends, Clingstone and its maintenance evolved into a communal lifestyle, and ultimately a kind of religion. One year Mr. Wood put an ad in The Harvard Crimson: “Island occupant wanted to live in 23-room house. No charges. No duties. Ready now.” Somehow, The Crimson printed that last line as “Leaky now.” Still, Mr. Wood was able to “hire” his first caretakers, a doctoral student and his wife, who would stay at Clingstone during the week and head back to Boston when Mr. and Mrs. Wood arrived on the weekends with their three young sons.  At that time power in those days came from a balky portable generator for the tools, and lighting from boxes and boxes of candle “seconds” bought by Mr. Wood. Drinking water was brought over from Jamestown, as it still is. During its earlier days the toilets flushed directly into the sea.(Gross).  Bartering access to the house has yielded all sorts of boons, like the yearly services of the Jamestown Boatyard (formerly the Wharton Shipyard, built just for Clingstone), which hauls the family’s boats and floating dock and stores them each winter in return for a week’s use of the house in the summer. The annual Clingstone work weekend is held every year around Memorial Day and it brings 70 plus friends and Clingstone lovers together to tackle jobs like washing all 65 windows and scraping and painting their frames and sills. There are, in fact, usually 215 or more to-do projects in the database that is maintained by Anne Tait, an artist and professor, and well-organized by theme and skill.  “Replace sewage line in basement, or offer moral support,” reads one of the project listings in this year’s schedule, under Plumbing. Under Cleaning, you’ll find, “check and maintain ‘No Bush’ sign.” (Since the 2004 election, this painted bedsheet has been hanging from a window.) After driving around Newport and seeing all the magnificent mansions there the house on the rock, Clingstone still was the one that held my attention the longest.  It was amazing!  Happy Thursday!

Wednesday, August 3, 2011

Tumbling Trance

She couldn’t wait to get to her first Tumbling class.

She put on her leotard hours before we even had to leave.

When it was finally time to go, she sang a song about Tumbling in the backseat. (“I love to tumble. I love to jump. I love cheese!”) (Yeah, the last bit was weird to me, too.)

(Although cheese is delicious.)

We got there early and she stared at the room she’d be in. All the various equipment and oh—the trampolines!

Then it was time to begin. She didn’t even bother giving me a hug, she just raced over to her brand new teacher.

“Have fun,” I called out.

I thought Natalie would have a blast. But I watched as she’d stare off into space when the teacher was telling them things.

She did great on the balance beam—well, the first half. Then she stared off into space again and oops, she fell to the ground.

So okay, she’s a daydreamer. Nothing wrong with that. I’m a daydreamer. I constantly go off into a trance and think about random things. (Such as, should I stop and get a slurpee at 711?....I shouldn’t feel bad about not cooking meat all the way, the chefs on Hell’s Kitchen do it at all the time and they’re supposed to be professionals...who ate all the Oatmeal Cream Pies?...oh, that was me…)

Natalie’s teacher was explaining how to spread your arms and legs while jumping on the trampoline.

Natalie did this once, and then went off into a trance.

I wanted to remind her to focus. But I was on the other side of the window and she wouldn’t be able to hear me.

Still, she seemed to enjoy her first Tumbling class. True, she might not have been as focused as the other kids—but she’s four, she has the attention span of a gnat.

Of course, all the other kids in her class are four too….

When it was all over, Natalie came over to me with a smile.

“Did you like that?” I asked.

She nodded.

“Why weren’t you paying attention though?” I wondered.

Natalie tugged my arm so I’d get down to her level. She cupped a hand around her mouth and leaned against my ear.

“Because,” she whispered, “I was trying to find a way to tell the teacher I needed to pee.”

Oh....

CoverMates Winner!

I did a giveaway for CoverMates last week.

I used random.org to pick a number and....

...it picked number 8 which was Laurie Parrack over at Lala’s Dumping Ground!

Congrats, Laurie!

As always, if you didn’t win, try again.

I’ll be doing many giveaways in the future!

Hodge Podge Volume 38

It is Wednesday once again and my last free one of the summer.  I will be hard at work next week.  I hopeyou will read through my answers to Joyce's prompts then go over to her blog, From This Side of the Pond, and check out everyone else's.  You learn a great deal about people by what they say on a blog.
1. Share a favorite song lyric -
Ok...that is asking a lot for me.  I have many many song lyric favorites.  I guess because of what all has been going on in my life over the course of the last two years....the lyrics to Shackles by Mary Mary would have to be my choice.
"Take the shackles off my feet so I can dance. I just wanna praise you I just wanna praise you. You broke the chains now I can lift my hands, And I'm gonna praise you I'm gonna praise you.  In the corners of mind I just can't seem to find a reason to believe.  That I can break free Cause you see I have been down for so long Feel like all hope is gone But as I lift my hands, I understand That I should praise you through my circumstance!"  Can I get an Amen on that one?
2. When was the last time someone yelled at you?
My mom was the last person to yell at me....and that was right before my dad died two years ago.  I do not tolerate yelling well.
3. Money, fame, happiness...are they mutually exclusive?
I don't think they are mutually exclusive.  People with money can be happy.  People with money can be miserable.  It is how you use the money and for what cause.  I do believe fame changes the whole mix of money to happiness ratio.  It seems that fame throws a huge monkey wrench into the whole plan.  Fame seems to bring out the ugliness in people and once that happens...happiness goes into hiding.
4. What is your favorite dish to prepare for family/friends that doesn't involve turning on the stove, oven, or an outdoor grill?
I do a cucumber, onion and balsamic vinegar marinated salad that is usually a hit and very simple.  It tops off a heavy meal with a light touch.
5. The first week of August is National Simplify Your Life Week. What is one thing you could do this week to simplify your life? Will you do it
Get my office in order, and I have it in my plans.
6. On a scale of 1-10 (with 10 being 100% and 1 being not at all) how tuned in are you to your country's national political scene?
I would have to say somewhere between an 8 or 9. There is a great deal I do not understand and will possibly never understand. For example, why does the middle class support all the brunt of tax hikes and such?  Why are the uppers exempt from so much?  I have to stop here...my blood pressure is rising.
7. What are your final parting words to the month of July?
Carpe Diem - Sieze the Day!  I have just a few more days left of summer vacay and going to make them count.
8.  My SMAK trip to Cape Cod was wonderful.  It was so great getting together with three of my favorite people.  I love traveling with them....I also love traveling with my daughter Kat.  We have traveled all over the world together, with or without others.  I could go anywhere with her and enjoy every minute. My usual summer buddy has been in the hospital all summer and it has felt weird to me.  Mary is very sick and has been in the hospital literally all summer.  I have missed our summer escapades and cannot wait for her to get better so we can resume our bucket list....and then there is Frank.  I love traveling with him.  He is fun, lets me sing, takes me cool places, and loves to shop.  I have big plans for him in the future.  I am seeing Alaska in my glass ball.    I am fortunate I have a wealth of traveling buddies in my life.  Who is your favorite traveling companion....and why?